Public Affection: Yes or No?

topic posted Wed, May 14, 2008 - 6:30 AM by  philip
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Do you like it when your lover displays some form of loving affection towards you usually in public, like holding your hand, wrapping an arm around your waist, or grabbing your face for a kiss, or would you prefer if he/she doesn't at all for people watching?
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  • Re: Public Affection: Yes or No?

    Tue, May 20, 2008 - 11:46 PM
    I like holding hands, an arm around the waist or the occasional kiss. I'm not into super sloppy PDAs...that said, there have been some interesting makeout sessions on the street at 3am with one eye open to see if anyone was walking by...
  • Re: Public Affection: Yes or No?

    Wed, May 21, 2008 - 7:20 PM
    I do, so much. It's not only highly arousing... it lets me know that he's not ashamed to let everyone know he's into me.
    • Re: Public Affection: Yes or No?

      Sat, May 24, 2008 - 2:25 PM
      Holding hands, arms around the waist, quick kisses. That's all great, and should happen all the time. But if you can give your lady a nipple orgasm in the back rows of BigLots, THAT'S cool.
      • Re: Public Affection: Yes or No?

        Wed, July 30, 2008 - 4:16 PM
        As the owner of the nipple in question, I agree, thats VERY cool. :D

        I love showing affection, be in public or not. It feels wonderful and very natural. No, I'm not big on playing tonsil hockey in public, but holding hands, walking with arms wrapped around each other, non slobbery kisses, hugs...all of those are fantastic. The icing on the cake is the judiciously stolen nipple play or kilt check in semi-public locations like a back aisle in s store, or whilst exiting the car in a parking lot. Bring it on! Its also gets us both very turned on for when we do get back home, and that is a beautiful thing.
  • Re: Public Affection: Yes or No?

    Fri, September 12, 2008 - 8:03 AM
    I love public affection. I love receiving it and watching it. It makes me smile. That shows me that he/they/it are not embarrassed of me nor do they care who knows that they DO care.

    Why be ashamed to touch in public? That makes no sense to me. If you love someone or just even care, why not give that affection as often as you have the opportunity. Time moves fast, what a waste to let a day go by without showing affection to those you care for, no matter where it is.
    • Re: Public Affection: Yes or No?

      Fri, September 12, 2008 - 12:25 PM
      I was just talking to my lovely ladyfriend, and brought up a couple that my ex and I had seen in an all-night taco stand a couple of years ago. It was so beautiful. The lady was wearing a knee-length RED dress. Yes, it was very red. Very stylish and classy, with just enough of a slit up the side to be really sexy. Had her hair done nicely, her make-up was all just so. Stockings, moderately high heels. She was stunning. Her man was nicely dressed, hair neatly done. They pulled up in the car outside, and he JUMPS out of the car to jog happily over to her side and open her door for her. Walking to the door of the taco shop with his arm around her, both of them with sparkles in their eyes just from the sheer joy of being with each other. He leads her to a booth, and reads off the things on the wall mounted menu that he knows she would like. Leaving her there at the booth, he goes to order for both of them. Glancing back at her with love in his eyes. He stops by the condiment table, getting salsas, peppers, radishes, etc. for the both of them. They eat their tacos sitting side by side, laughing, kissing occasionally, obviously quite in love. It was wonderful to watch. Even more wonderful if you consider that they were in their 80's. If I am so lucky to live that long, I hope I can have that kind of relationship with my own honey. It was truly beautiful, and gives me hope for the future.
  • Re: Public Affection: Yes or No?

    Sun, September 14, 2008 - 5:40 PM
    Yes. I'm into it!
    It doesn't make anyone in the immediate vicinity any less attractive either...if you know what I mean....
    I find it interesting that PDA can be used to let others know, 'this is "mine"'....
    This happens subconsciously sometimes...I catch myself.
    I think it depends how recent 'the break up' was....the only time I've minded is when I was freshly out of a long-term relationship.
  • Re: Public Affection: Yes or No?

    Mon, November 9, 2009 - 10:01 PM
    I am all for affection anywhere I am fortunate enough to find it or find a recipient for mine. In public, one does need to draw the line at the "get a room" stage.

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